Unlocking Everlasting Love: Join Us at the Premier Marriage Conference of the Year!
Unlocking Everlasting Love: Join Us at the Premier Marriage Conference of the Year!
“We’re excited to share an experience of a lifetime. For over two decades, the HLM Marriage Getaway has strengthened hundreds of couples. Come join us for an unforgettable weekend of love & laughs that is guaranteed to enhance & fortify your marriage. We hope to see you there.”
The Phoenix Award is a prestigious honor recognizing couples who have faced challenges and emerged stronger, embodying the resilience of the mythical phoenix. More than just an award, it symbolizes love’s power to inspire, transform, and uplift communities.

Check-In Resort
Registration Salon B & C
Dinner On Your Own
Free Time until 6:30PM CST























Worship Night
Location: Grand Ball Room Salon B & C
Powerful worship, prayer, and prophecy
Attire: Twin with your spouse! Experience a night of praise, connection, and inspiration.














































Breakfast on your own (local restaurants open at 6:30 AM CST)























Cardio Drumming (bring your drumsticks)
Loramoor Ball Room (Lower Level)























Prayer
Do you desire prayer? This is for anyone who wants prayer as a couple or as an individual.
Location: Salon A
Sign Up for Prayer By Filling out the Form Below.























Session 1 – Circle of Trust -an intimate safe space where couples like your self share their own journey and personal testimonies
Location: Grand Ballroom B & C
Men & Women’s Breakout Session
Men: Ballroom A
Women: Ballroom B & C
Attire: Twinning with your spouse























Session 2-Intimacy
Location: Maple Ball Room
Attire: Twinning with your spouse























Free Time!
On your own unless you desire to participate in the optional sessions.
Prepare your tropical island wear for the evening























Optional
Session 3- Heartwork
Location: Swinghurst Theater
Addressing matters of the heart and mind, for individuals that may be feeling hopeless and those who desire inner healing. This session is not specifically for couples. The inner healing is for you as well as your spouse.























First-Timer’s Reception
Location: Salon A
Hosts: Malcolm & Shawn Smith
Is this is your first time attending? We have something special for you. Join us for a wonderful welcome reception.























Pastors round table
Private reception for Pastors only
Location: Salon B & C























Meet & Greet – Forum
Pizza reception
Let the Games Begin!
Attire: Tropical island wear























Cardio Drumming (Bring your Drumsticks
Location: Loramoor Ballroom (Lower Level)
Attire: Workout gear.
Bring a towel.























Private Breakfast – Chop House
Sign up is required.
Breakfast Sign Up and Dietary Survey























Main Sessions – Forum AB
Attire: Wear your Conference T-shirts























Lunch on your own !
Free Time!























Gala- Forum
6:00-7pm Phoenix Orange Carpet reception, photo ops and More!
7:00pm Dinner served
Phoenix Awards
Heartlife Honorees
Dance the Night Away
Attire: Semi Formal Teal/ Gold Pop























Breakfast on Your Own 7:00AM – 9:00 AM
Prayer room – Salon A
Note: CHECK OUT of your room before Sunday Session. Checkout is at 11:00am














































Neesha’s Network Entrepreneurship and Business
Location: Forum























“Still Your Heart ” Closeout session – Forum
Attire: Favorite team sports wear
VOLUNTEERS NEEDED FOR BREAKDOWN AFTER CLOSEOUT. ANY AND ALL HELP IS APPRECIATED.
Lineup to be announced!


Reggie and London have been married for 28 years and serve as Lead Pastors of Lifeline Church, a multi-cultural, multi-generational ministry. Lifeline Church operates through campuses in Cicero, IL, Chicago, IL, and multiple locations in Mexico. The Royals are deeply passionate about strengthening marriages and families, which is reflected in their platforms like Wise Men, Winning Women, and Married Life. They are authors of Married Life: Building a Divorce-Proof Marriage and lead events such as Communication Labs and Relational Investment Nights to equip couples with tools for success. Their first ministry is to each other and their three sons, Justin, Jaden, and Cordae.


Pastors Brent and Sol McQuay are the visionary and passionate leaders of Disciples Church in Tinley Park, Illinois. With a heart for transformation, they are dedicated to helping people grow in faith, discover their God-given purpose, and live it out boldly.
Together, they bring a powerful blend of wisdom, leadership, and compassion. Pastor Brent delivers dynamic, practical Bible teaching that speaks to everyday life, while Pastor Sol empowers people to build meaningful, Christ-centered lives.
Their shared mission is clear: to witness lives radically changed through a genuine relationship with Jesus. They believe the church should ignite faith, inspire transformation, and equip people to become disciples who make disciples.


Hasani and Danielle Pettiford are the co-founders of Couples Academy, specializing in affair recovery, divorce prevention, and enneagram personality pairing. With over 17 years of experience, they’ve worked with high-profile clients, including entertainers, athletes, and executives worldwide. Their intensives, retreats, and coaching programs have made a global impact, with appearances on NBC, BET, TLC, and more. As authors of several books, including The Audacity of Marriage and 7 Days of Extraordinary Sex,the Pettifords continue to inspire couples to strengthen their relationships. Married for 20 years, they are proud parents of four daughters.


David and Niki Winston are dynamic ministry leaders passionate about helping people live with faith, purpose, and love. Together, they serve at Living Word Christian Center in Forest Park, Illinois, where they founded Go Hard for Christ Youth Ministry impacting youth worldwide for over 20 years.
David serves as a pastor and director of Bill Winston Ministries and is the founder of the Winston Leadership Institute. He is the author of AUTHENTIC, Winning in Life, and co-author (with Niki) of Strong in Spirit: 5-Minute Devotions for Preteen Boys.
Niki, a 2024 Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award recipient, has degrees in Christian Studies and Psychology, is a certified Apologetics instructor, and has ministered on global platforms such as Woman Evolve and Bill Winston Ministries’ International Faith Conference. She is the author of How to Win Him & Keep Him Happy and Biblical Truths Concerning Divorce & Remarriage.
Married for over 17 years, they are proud parents of four children Jacob, Jordan, Joshua, and Lily and are dedicated to strengthening families and advancing God’s Kingdom together.


Talaat and Tai McNeely are the Lead Pastors of Purpose City Church in Aurora, IL, where they cultivate a multiethnic, intergenerational, Spirit-filled community. Their mission is to transform lives through the Gospel of Grace and equip people to love God and others, impacting the world for Christ.
In addition to their ministry at Purpose City Church, Talaat and Tai are the founders of His and Her Money, a financial education platform dedicated to empowering couples and individuals to achieve financial freedom and create generational wealth. Through their platform, they teach biblical principles of financial stewardship, debt freedom, and wealth-building, offering practical tools to help families live out God’s purpose for their finances.
Together, Talaat and Tai are committed to creating spaces where individuals and families can thrive—both spiritually and financially—by following God’s principles in all areas of life.


Tim and Kelli Howard have been the pastors of New Joy Divine Full Gospel Church in the heart of Chicago, IL for a over a decade. In their 33-year marriage, they’ve lovingly nurtured and guided a beautiful family of five children. Their remarkable journey in ministry spanning over 40 years has been marked by teachings, sermons, and inspirations delivered with transparency, boundless love, and an unwavering commitment to spreading the gospel in the most unconditional and heartwarming ways.
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This getaway is for marriages that are in any season: Struggling, blissfully happy, comfortable, content, stagnant.
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You’ll hear great testimonies of how couples got through the hardest times. You’ll get tools on how to keep your marriage fun and full of joy. How to communicate effectively. How to keep the fire burning. To understand the true meaning of marriage b/w a husband and a wife.
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Expect the unexpected. This is not your typical marriage ‘retreat’. Expect to have a great time, to laugh, to cry tears of joy. Expect to teak some chains. Expect to feel like you’re not alone.
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It’s worth every cent because you won’t leave the same way you came. We invest in everything else. Why not invest in something that God ordained?
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If it’s your first time, it won’t feel like it. You’ll feel right at home, like you’re amongst family.
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